This post takes a look at the life of Rhoda, a servant girl in the house of Mary, mother of John Mark, as glimpsed in Acts 12:13-16. Though the mention of her going to the door when Peter knocked after a divine prison breakout is brief, we have a significant lesson to learn from this woman of faith.
Who is Rhoda in the Bible?
We are told that Rhoda is a female servant, likely a young one, in the home of Mary. While Scripture doesn't overtly say she was a follower of the Messiah, we have reason to believe that she was based on her actions in this story. We also know that she was able to recognize Peter's voice, which meant she was in the thick of the action of the early church and had heard people preach and discuss the Gospel. The story we have of her takes place during the Feast of Unleavened Bread, where she was working in a home that was hosting gatherings of believers.
Rhoda comes up in Acts 12:13-16 and is usually treated like an amusing anecdote.
This passage of Scripture immediately follows the miraculous escape from prison that Peter had after he was awoken by an angel who distracted the guards, released his chains, walked past soldiers and through a gate that opened by itself. It was such a dramatic scene that Peter didn't think it was actually happening. He presumed it to be a vision or dream according to Acts 12:9. Once the angel mysteriously disappeared and Peter found himself outside the city did he realize it was a divine rescue-mission so he could avoid whatever Herod and the religious leaders planned to do to him at his trial the next day. It's such a wild and exciting part of the Bible that it's easy to gloss over the next detail.
Peter decided to head to the house of a woman named Mary. She was the mother John Mark, who wrote the gospel of Mark. She had apparently been using her home as some sort of base or gathering place for the Disciples and followers of the Messiah. Peter knew he would be welcomed and sheltered there, and that he could reconnect with other believers. Sure enough, many of Jesus's followers had come together there to pray, despite the late hour.
Peter knocked on the gate, and a servant named Rhoda came to answer. When she heard Peter's voice, she was too excited to open the gate. She ran back into the house and said Peter was standing there. "You are crazy!" everyone told her. But she kept saying it was Peter. -Acts 12:13-15
In the past, I have consistently heard this story told in a way that highlights the shock of the disciples, in order to emphasize just how impossible this prison breakout was. It only happened because of divine intervention. It was so unlikely that Rhoda's joy at the surprise of Peter's presence was so encompassing that she was too excited to open the gate.
But what's really noteworthy here isn't just the joy at Peter's safe return. Rhoda usually gets treated by pastors like she's fan-girling over Peter and is such an airhead that she doesn't even think to let him in. But she doesn't forget to let him in, she can't let him in. This isn't a matter of opening an unlocked screen door. Believers at this point are facing heavy persecution. Peter is in prison. James has already been killed. It seems likely that they are taking security precautions, especially given that it's the middle of the night during a Biblical holiday. The gate would have been large and heavy. It would have been tricky and cumbersome to open under the best circumstances, but the joy and surprise Rhoda experienced kept her from being able to open up the gate for him.
What stands out is that no one listened to her. No one took her at her word that Peter was there. No one offered to help her open the gate so they could check. They came up with elaborate explanations about what she had heard. They actually insisted to her that she was crazy!
But she kept saying it was Peter!
This isn't the first time that the Bible tells a story about a woman who is not believed. The same thing happens to Mary Magdalene when she follows the instruction of Jesus to go and tell his brothers what he's said to her.
It's interesting that the Bible records this happening. More than once. We have a lesson to learn here, and it's a simple one: it's okay to believe women and it's okay to hear them talk about the Gospel.
Scripture literally puts this detail in: a woman knew the truth, a woman shared the truth, and she wasn't believed.
Many women continue to be treated this way today. Having their words, devotionals, teachings, and insights be disregarded and then being verbally abused for talking about truth. The inclusion of this detail of Rhoda's life highlights that not believing women has backfired on people and the church in general. Her story reminds these women to keep saying it.
Rhoda's story teaches us that we can keep speaking the truth of Scripture even when we don't have the support of the people around us. We see from her story that all of God's children deserve to be treated with respect and care, regardless of their gender, societal rank, or socioeconomic status.
Before calling someone crazy, go check the gate.
More posts about women in Scripture:
The Significance of Sarah in the Bible
Who Was Phoebe in Romans 16?
What the Mary and Martha Story Actually Means
