I'm looking forward to the Sabbath, but I've got a fair amount of things to do before then because, honestly, taking a day of rest can be a lot of work. It takes thought and preparation to arrive at the seventh day with your immediate needs provided for. Making sure your fridge is stocked, the clothes you need for the day are washed, and clearing your schedule is work. It's easy for Friday afternoons to become a whirlwind of stress and the the frantic pace of trying to get everything done. The to-do list overflows into the seventh day and many of us find ourselves working to get everything done, even on the Sabbath. When you're striving for perfection it's easy to enter Shabbat feeling exhausted and anxious.
However, this is not what our Creator had in mind when he gave us the joy of a day of rest. Sabbath is not a reward for checking off our to-do list. He does not say to rest if we have everything done.
He just says to rest.
However, this is not what our Creator had in mind when he gave us the joy of a day of rest. Sabbath is not a reward for checking off our to-do list. He does not say to rest if we have everything done.
He just says to rest.
The first Sabbath we see in Scripture was taken by YHWH himself.
On the sixth day YHWH ended his work that he had made; and rested on the seventh day from all his work that he he made. -Genesis 2:2
I find it interesting that YHWH still had quite a bit of things to do. In six days he formed most of Creation, but he had yet to make Adam and Eve. We can look further into his schedule to know that he would be making clothes for them very soon, and that he needed to give Noah instructions for the ark, break down the tower of Babel, appear to Abraham, free the Israelites from slavery, give them Torah, guide them as the pillar of cloud/fire, speak through the prophets, send Yahsuha into the world, and on and on. YHWH wasn't resting because he was finished working.
I think we have certain expectations for what a day of rest looks like: sunny and peaceful, delcious meals waiting for us in the fridge, a pristine home, and the to-do list so checked off that not a single chore crosses our minds.
While that sounds lovely we are going to become frustrated and disappointed if we look at Shabbat as something we do once we've completed all our work. No matter how much you've accomplished this week there will be plenty to do next.
Sabbath rest is not negotiable. It's not a reward for getting everything done. We don't rest because we have finished working. We rest so that we can keep working.
It's okay to rest even if the kitchen is a mess. It's okay to rest even if you have a big paper due on Monday. It's okay to rest when there remains work to be done.
"The Shabbat was made for man, and not man for Shabbat." -Mark 2:27
In other words - Shabbat was made for you to rest, not for you to get everything perfect for. The Messiah's statement here reminds us that there aren't complicated rules to the Sabbath. He does not require that we light candles or bake challah bread. He does not ask that our homes be immaculate or that everything be in order. He tells us that he made Shabbat for us so that we could rest, no matter how hectic the rest of the week was or will be.
"Six days you shall labor, and do all your work: but the seventh day is the Shabbat of YHWH your Elohim." -Exodus 20:9-10
This Shabbat give yourself permission to rest. Even if there's still stuff to do. Even if you don't' feel ready. Give yourself permission because YHWH does.
I love, love, love this! This is paradigm shifting, freedom releasing and all sort of exciting for me! I am still trying to figure out all this will mean for me and my family but the more I learn the more I see the importance.
ReplyDeleteYay! That is exactly my hope...that people would see that Shabbat rest isn't a burden but is so FREEING. Something I always try to convey is that it's not about doing things traditionally or getting your Sabbath to look exactly like mine. YHWH created us uniquely and our expressions of worship and obedience will reflect that. Figure out what works for you (within Biblical parameters of course)!
DeleteI have been digging more and more into this over the last month I feel like its now about just pulling the trigger, I am now wholeheartedly convinced of the greatness of shabbat now to just do it and not get caught up in all the things I want to have "in order" to take part. Thank you for your diligence of sharing God's heart on this issue.
DeleteLauren, thank you again for your kind words! You are so thoughtful and kind.
DeleteI am seriously just so excited for you to be on this journey! There are definitely good things ahead for you and your family. It might feel tricky and awkward at first but my love for this day seriously grows each week.
Letting go of things being perfect has not been easy for me but it is so freeing. A lot of people take the approach of cleaning, cooking, etc like a mad woman because "a king is coming." I totally love their reverence of YHWH but I'm not convinced this was his intention. To me it's more like my best friend coming over or my husband coming home. Sure, it would be nice to have a Pinterest ready house and table but that is soo not the point. They're coming to see you!
Keep me posted on how this goes!
Here I am nearly 2 months later and I am still wading through this but it still weighs heavy on my heart as I continue learning how to do this with my brood. I long to make it a part of life so it is second nature for my boys. I come from a set of parents who were ALWAYS on the go and so rest seems wrong for me often. Thank you for your inspiration and perspective. Your heart for the Father and the sabbath is absolutely stunning.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to overcome the way we were raised, and not to mention hundreds/thousands of years of culture in a society that is totally against having a rest at any time!
DeleteI am a big fan of baby steps. haha So maybe just pick one thing you can do this week for sabbath rest - whether that's deciding to stay home all day or having a family devotion or what not and let go of the rest until you are comfortable with the first step. :)
Amen! I couldn't have said it better myself <3
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